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February 02, 2020 in

We love who we love
We can't choose who we will love

   Can we choose the love after the hurt? The reason why I'm asking this because I felt the pain from the previous. I believe that love is not only for someone but also for yourself however, is that possible even you are happy and contented for what you have but still you seek love and attention to someone else? How it can be?
  Love is absolute madness. One day, it makes you feel like you are floating in a river of happiness-the next day, you are already drowning in your ocean of tears.

    Then now because of too much pain, I can't longer see myself happy anymore. It's hard to start yourself when you feel broken in pieces. "Oh well, that's life!" We can't choose who we will love. Love is a powerful tool that can either break or complete someone's heart. That's how it is! We cannot please someone to love. We still choose to love even if it hurts.


   I falling in love many times but they never felt in love with me. Destiny didn't give you a favor to give you the person you want. Just in case the day comes you find the person who is destined for you. You are very lucky. but the other side of the story, there are people like me who are silent praying when they can find who is for them. There is a gap heart asking they don't have enough?  Who knows? Until the end of the day no one knows. That's life very unpredictable we cannot control what will happen. Always unexpected comes.


     I committed the crime of loving too much to the point that I don't know where to start. I was handcuffed with our unforgettable memories and I was locked in my bedroom which serve as prison.
When you choose loving someone. You always face the consequences no matter how it is good or bad. You need forgiveness from your sinful for loving too much that it killed you! Forgiveness will set you free and moving forward to start your wonderful day after darkness. 



     After a lot of heartbreaks can we still in love? One of the question that I always think on my mind. I just realize why some people afraid to love not because they are weak. but because they in love with the comforts of lies and uncertainties beyond of loving someone. We choose love because for yourself not for someone else. You can choose to love someone when you know how to love yourself. because that is what we live and love for and not just being in love with someone.
    We love because we want to feel special and emotions. ride the roller-coaster through all ups and downs and for me this is why I love anyways.


  Love is absolute madness. One day, it makes you feel like you are floating in a river of happiness-the next day, you are already drowning in your ocean of tears.
 
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  1. At the end of the day, you need to be able to love yourself so that for any amount of pain you experience, you can pick yourself up and move on.

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  2. Love is something that you have to work on and when you do you will be rewarded for it :)

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  3. Kristine Nicole AlessandraFebruary 3, 2020 at 6:57 AM

    Failed relationships are lessons we have to go through. I see it as a "cleansing process." You get to realize how strong you are after a break up. Work on yourself, regain your confidence. In other words, cry if you must, and then wipe your tears, get up and start loving yourself once more.

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  4. Very well said. I agree so much. Love is so unpredictable and it wont always make you happy and comfortable.

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  5. It is so true, feelings of love are very inconsistent. Well written and said!

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  6. I can feel the emotions! I wonder what is the story behind this post. Hmmm..

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  7. people experience failed relationship so that they will be able to learn from it.

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  8. Love can be hard sometimes, but I really think it's something worth fighting for.

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  9. Love is so tricky. I've been hurt in the past, but I think that, once you find the right person, you will know. When I met my husband, he wasn't anything like the previous guys I had dated. He filled all the gaps and, because I had been hurt before, I knew that he was different. I knew what I wanted and what to look for.

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  10. Love can be a tricky up and down scale but it's beautiful when it's genuine and yes, you can love again after being hurt because there's always that special someone for everyone.

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  11. I think loving yourself first is what’s most important. Love yourself to be able to give love back!

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  12. It's very rare for a first relationship to work out perfectly. Learn from life and move on.

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  13. The art work looks amazing! I love the colors x

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  14. Falling in love is terrifying, chaotic and beautiful. The first person we need to fall in love with is oneself.

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  15. You can certainly love after heartbreak. It's hard but it happens. Also, you need to love yourself so that the right person will see that. You can't expect to be loved if YOU don't love you.

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  16. I was in your shoes a couple of years back so I definitely get where you're coming from. Just know that every pain is temporary, and that with every pain, you get a step ahead on finding your one great love. - Krizzia

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  17. I'm in that position right now. I chose to love someone for years when they didn't love me in return. Now I feel as though love is not for me and if I'll ever find it again.

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  18. Love definitely has ups and downs!! It's nice to see no one is alone in their feelings sometimes too

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  19. It's too deep, I want to hug you. I am a person who sprinkle love in each way. I hope the strength of love I felt would, at least, be felt wherever you are. It will always hurt. But, you would endure.. to smile again and love again.

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  20. Definitely one can fall in love again after a heart break, you just don't let yourself lose to it and have faith that better things are yet to come.

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  21. I am sure there is always love in there for you!
    P.S. the pictures are absolutely beautiful

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  22. Well written and touched me deeply. Many things you said here are what I am going through now. The art works you used are so amazing. Thank you for sharing this. Feels like I am speaking to myself.

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  23. I have been from a really bad break up from a 10 year relationship and felt that that I am not capable of loving again before. But I tell you -- it's possible, you can and you can move on. Now, I am happily married with my best friend and we're celebrating our wedding anniversary this Thursday.

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  24. I was taught love is never wrong. I still don't think it is.

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  25. You loved too much the wrong people and they didn't give back the same as they received. When the right person will come along you will indeed love again. You just need to fully heal your wounds and be prepared to have an open heart.

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  26. You gotta love yourself first before someone can love you. I’m sure when time comes you will be able to find someone who love you and whom you will love.

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  27. this is very well-worded ! love is unpredictable and unconditionally ! i love the artwork that you used to portray the emotions

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  28. There are different forms of love and sometimes it's unpredictable, uncontrollable and unstoppable. True love is not obsessive, not abusive or deceptive -- if you experienced it, it's not love. Consider it as lesson and try to move on as soon as possible. And
    it's better to love yourself first, make yourself proud of you, build your dreams, reach your goals and I know, one of these days, true love will find its way to you.

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  29. Love has such different facets, it is enduring, it is fulfilling and it comes in many ways. Loved reading this post

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  30. Great article, but I'm in love with those illustations ❤️

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  31. so well written. Love comes in so many different forms. agree that you have to love yourself first before someone can love you

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  32. Well, atleast you know what you DONT want out of a relationship :) Keep going and always prioritize self-love. That's my #1 lesson in love!

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  33. I think it's hard to get past hurt from a relationship. It carries over in ways we take awhile to even realize, sometimes!

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  34. I ask myself the same question: can I still love after the heartbreak. It is something I have to work on since I dated for a long time and afraid of getting heart again.

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    1. Thanks for sharing this very informative article. Keep it up!

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  35. I'm confirmed, there is always love for you!
    The photos in this blog post are absolutely beautiful and amazing.

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  36. There are so many different types of love out there in the world. The love we feel for our children. The love we feel for family members or friends, the love we have for our pets, or for small comforting things in our life, and the love we have for ourselves. We have to learn to love ourselves and appreciate ourselves alone before we can learn to love and appreciate others. BUt it is possible to find true love after having relationship failures. There is someone out there that will see those good qualities in you and want to be with you no matter what. You just need to learn that you can love yourself through the heartache of failed relationships and that those failures are all just little lessons to help you figure out more about yourself and what you need and want.

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  37. You can definitely love again after experiencing heartbreak. You just need to give yourself time to heal.

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  38. Falling in love after heartbreak is certainly difficult, but it can be done!

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  39. The many faces of love and the vague description of it to whom will define it. I love the illustrations!

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