A Life Of An Ambivert
There is peaceful
There is wild
I am both same times.
- A story of mine can define for who am I.
My personality has a lot of confusion to all of people. They can't figure out for who I am. it is easy to know the person when you have time talk to them and go hang out with them but sometimes it's not enough to know their personality already. Honestly, in my part, I' am both introvert and extravert. I like people but I love being alone. I'll go out to meet other people but it has an expiration because sometimes living in my own world is one of my safe places. I don't want to seek attention just to like me. My environment dictates how I behave. Sometimes I'm too loud, Sometimes I'm quiet. I work what I want and remain, patients while going after it. I love writing things to express myself.
Being Ambivert can divide into two things the introvert and extrovert. We all know both of these personalities can define for who you are. I have this two behavior, maybe perhaps there are times that I do a lot of things that can determine that I' am introvert and then there are some things that can determine that I'm an extravert. so what does it mean?
- An ambivert is someone who falls in the middle of the introvert/extrovert continuum. Ambiverts have a blend of traits from both introverts and extroverts, as well as their own unique strengths.
article by: Introdear.com
I'm an introvert in a way of I love being alone. There are times I want to stay my room in a whole day. Sometimes I don't want to talk to anyone. especially I don't attend for Family gathering because I feel awkward many times. I felt like that I'm quite different and I think they criticize me. Oh well, I'm not saying that they are judgemental and I don't want to offend anyone. I just want to explain what I feel. Yah! It's really hard because I have some relationship difficulties for other people especially to those family relatives I'm so sorry guys I'm just being me. You can judge me it's okay but this is me
I do not pretend things just to impress and like me because this is me and I love being me.
In some other cases, I'm an extrovert when it comes about to communicate and socialize to other people. but I have limitations. I like to talk and socialize but not all of the time. I' am a talkative person but I'm too quiet because sometimes my anxiety attacks me. I have some friends who listen to my thoughts and give me advice. I love going to some places to meet other people because for me it's a kind of adventure.but finding a true friend is really hard to find. I love watching concerts because for me it determines happiness singing with the band singers and the crowd makes me feel happy. I do jump because I feel joy. I do make acquaintances sometimes.
This art symbolized my personality.
My life has full of colors.
love, peace and wild
I do the same all of these at the same time.
-amayszing.-
Ambivert is moderately comfortable. You can socialize whatever you want. You can go anywhere to explore anything, but when it comes that you feel toxic, go someplace and make you alone from the crowd. Make yourself comfortable and always be real to yourself. I hope my story will truly inspire you.
41 comments
Funny enough I was just thinking the other day about this! I also love people but I enjoy my time by myself a lot more. I just loved reading about this, thanks for sharing!
ReplyDeleteI had no idea there was a name for what I am...I can proudly say "I am an ambivert." Absolutely loved this article!
ReplyDeleteI think a lot of us have aspects of both in our personalities. I am definitely someone who's comfortable and outgoing in large groups in some ways/at some times, but other times I HAVE to be by myself to recharge.
ReplyDeleteI've never heard the term ambivert before, but this definitely describes me. I like to go out and be around other people and socialize, but then after a while I am ready to go and just want to go home where it's relatively quiet and my own space.
ReplyDeleteI definitely think that I am an ambivert,as much as I like to be around people. Sometimes, all I want is staying alone. I have to push myself a lot and leave my comfort zone to enjoy big crowd.
ReplyDeleteI too am an Ambivert and enjoy both the phases. Having stayed alone for a considerable period without my family because of work, I love my own space as well as connecting with people.
ReplyDeleteI think I'm an ambivert too - I enjoy being with people but I am also very independent and like my own space sometimes...
ReplyDeleteI never knew there was a a term ambivert. I now know where I fit in as a I always thought I was not one or the other.
ReplyDeleteThis is good to know. I have heard about ambiverts but I do not really understand what it means. I guess I am an ambivert too.
ReplyDeleteI think I'm an ambivert as well! I am a bit socially awkward and enjoy time alone, but I also really love spending time with certain people in certain places.
ReplyDeleteI am definitely an introvert, except maybe around my friends. I like spending time alone probably more than being with people, but when I'm out, I do like to around people, as opposed to just being by myself.
ReplyDeleteI am not sure what I am but I'm leaning more towards introvert. Although, I can enjoy company (most likely only my circle of friends and not actually making friends with people you've never met), I still love it when I'm alone.
ReplyDeleteI've always thought that I was an intovert since I love my 'ME' time a lot. But I can also get super social. Well, turns out I'm an ambivert after all.
ReplyDeleteI love this article, it was educative for me, it made me now know how much I am of an introvert than an extrovert.
ReplyDeleteI think I am an ambiverts in a way that I can strike up a conversation with anyone at anytime. But, I like to spend my weekends in my apartment.
ReplyDeleteWow! This really hit home for me. Thank you for sharing and helping to validate my feelings.
ReplyDeleteInteresting. I never really considered that one would fall in the middle of introvert and extrovert.
ReplyDeleteThis is definitely me!! I always knew I was in the middle but I didn't know there was a name for it!
ReplyDeleteI never heard of this thing, but I am kind of one myself. I always called myself an extroverted introvert. I grew up one, but grew out of many of those traits and have found I like being in public and interacting. But a part of me still feels like it's work too. So a bit of both. Good to know there are more people like me. :-)
ReplyDeleteInteresting post, I've never heard of an Ambivert before so it is neat to learn more about it.
ReplyDeleteI know what it feels like to be an ambivert. However I like this post from your point of view.
ReplyDeleteI am an ambivert as well. I fall in the middle. Best of both worlds, I guess. Good article! 💕
ReplyDeleteFunny how today's generation name everything. I'm a Millennial but back in my younger days we call ambiverts as sane normal individuals.
ReplyDeleteI’ve not heard of this term before. I feel like that’s me! Thanks for sharing
ReplyDeleteWho cares what others think of you? The important is you know 100% of yourself, and you know exactly what makes you happy.
ReplyDeleteWhat you wrote was kind of relatable. I really think of myself as an ambivert and it was intersting to read the same from your POV.
ReplyDeleteI am also ambivert. I would prefer to be more extrovert but being alone is also fun.
ReplyDeleteHow interesting! I never knew there was a word to identify someone who falls between the two traits.
ReplyDeleteNever heard of this word before but its great to now know the meaning of it thats for sure! Its important to be happy regardless of others sometimes
ReplyDeleteAfter reading your post I'm feeling I also belong to categories. Comfortable with the people I know and shy among new people.
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ReplyDeleteWow! This is a whole new category of personality. I never heard the term before but feel like i can totally relate.
ReplyDeletehave heard of this before.. and love that quote..
ReplyDeleteI’m an introvert all the way, but your description of yourself sounds like quite a few of my friends.
ReplyDeleteAm an introvert too and I prefer to work alone. But when I have fun, it was a blast :)
DeleteThis was really an interesting read! I've never heard of an ambivert before, I think I'm more introverted.
ReplyDeleteOh so that what you called if you have qualities of an introvert and extrovert. Great Info
ReplyDeletewow! i do love to go out and socialized but then at the same i want to have a quite place and be alone. lol..
ReplyDeleteI think that I too can relate to this and potential he call myself an ambivert
ReplyDeleteI like the term ambivert - it makes complete sense just like ambidextrous
ReplyDeleteI discovered the term in 2015 and it made me laugh at how much it described me. Even though I tend to describe myself as one with a multiple personality disorder and an ambivert, I love and enjoy my introvertedness.
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