Sulat Para Kay Someone.
A letter for Someone ย is a letter that I wrote to someone else. Whatโs inside this letter?
Before that I will make this blog post as my confession.
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Iโm turning 24 without any love life. ย Sometimes I Just asking myself if you are exist or I'm born to be alone ( I hope not!) if you are a straight person you know what Iโm talking about. ย I need you to figure out this things about me.
I dare you to figure out!
36-29-34 my vital statistics 5'2 height Okay Iโm not sexy guys! I just focus myself more on concert and gigs! I admit Iโm not really beautiful as what you expected.ย Iโm very talkative and funny person when it terms of attitude Iโm being to introvert most of the time I love being alone. Iโm too more workaholic and spend time to sleep. ย So dun pa lang talo talo na! I guess this is the first reason. Iโll give you more as you expected.
Iโm responsible person.
ย ย As a second bread winner I have a responsibilities and priority need first. I help my parents financially. especially here in Philippines you need to work hard to sustain their wants and needs and also they need your support. One thing another term is too being adulthood Imagine guys Iโm not already married but I already encounter this matter. I pay bills. I have loans and many more! .If you are responsible person you need to think about how to survive this kind of poverty charut!! HAHAHAHHAHA!ย ๐๐๐ย I have monthsary too. But not the same just like couples do. exchanging love letters? ย Nahhh!! They give me a lot of enveloped letter.ย Letter of disconnection notice! HAHAHAHAHA!! ๐๐๐ย and statement of account.ย Kidding! Moving on. They say we have different priorities. Indeed! We have a different priority even that you are the bread winner youโve always give time to yourself. FYI this is not the easy process. Minsan nasa puntong nawawalan ka ng oras sa sarili mo dahil sa stress! ย You donโt have time to talk to someone else because you take a lot of stress! Sometimes you just think to be alone and take time to sleep it makes sense??
ย What things that makes me Happy?
ย As I already mentioned. I love music I spend my time to watching concerts gigs and travel. If you see my previous blog mostly youโve encounter my life events post. Hindi naman ako tulad ng ibang iniisip mo kaya wag kang advance mag isip jan! Iโm not the person that loves to spend time to go shopping and what so ever I think this is one of the reasons why I look different than others. I love making funny joke and do goofy things. Sometimes Iโm being too bully person but most of the time Iโm being to realistic. So thatโs why.
What is my ideal man? Why Iโm being to choosy person.
ย ย ย Yes! I know some of you are curious about this topic so whatโs my ideal man? Okay guys for some clarification, Ideal person has not what you think about the appearance. My Ideal man is he can accept me for who I am.ย Iโm not after about the ages also if heโs rich or poor.ย I want to spend the rest of my life with the person that ready for acceptance and consequences Iโve been through for the past relationship but unfortunately itโs not gonna work. Because now a dayโs trust is very important Iโm no longer teenager for the relationship. This is a serious thing. I donโt have a time to those people that needs what they want. What I mean is they want have a fun. ย You know what I mean guys! HAHAHAHA! Iโm being to sensitive person when it comes of topic about ( s*x ) HAHAHHAHA because Iโm a little bit conservative so thatโs why! ย
Listening: Love is Blind Tiffany ย ๐ถ ย ๐ถ
Are you fall in love Already?
ย ย ย Yes I Fall in love many times but suddenly it never works.ย Some relationship just doesnโt work out.ย No matter how situations is either the time, distance.ย Iโve been through that before. I learned a lot. We all know the person as you expected is never yours.ย You deserve better someone else. I donโt know where is he now because I never him meet yet I guess. They say time comes. We donโt know when just wait and search it by yours. I hope he read my post.
ย Listening Song: Sundo by Imagoย
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ย ย ย ย Pasensya na ha? Mahirap ako Ma attached !
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ย ย ย ย Hi someone? I Have a Letter for you !! I hope you have a time to take read !
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ย ย ย Dear Someone.ย
ย ย ย ย ย Hi.This letter is for you :)
Thank you and Highly appreciated.
ย ย ย ย Maraming salamat at sana Makilala na kita
I am so glad that I found this blog. You are skilled my friend. Keep inspiring.
ReplyDeleteThis is so beautifully written! I am looking forward in reading more from you!
ReplyDeleteThank you for being so transparent and sharing your heart! This was very refreshing to read!
ReplyDeleteI can feel your struggle of singleness, I am still living it at 28! But you just have to stay strong
ReplyDeleteI do believe it is important to know what you want to find in a man. I am so thankful that the Lord brought me my husband.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful post Maysz, your love will come one day! When I was ready to give up hope is when I was blessed with my husband <3
ReplyDeleteIโve had relationships that fail and it hurts but you just keep going. Focus on you and the rest will fall into place!
ReplyDeleteYou will find a good one when it s time. There is no age for love ! Keep living your best ! :)
ReplyDeleteThings happen for a reason... the right man just hasn't come into your life yet. I didn't meet my husband until I was 26 - but I knew straight away he was the man for me!
ReplyDeleteTo make you feel a little bit better I'm 30 and I don't have any love life right now. I've got the same worries as you, but I think that everyone will find someone sooner or later. Good luck! :)
ReplyDeleteI'm sure you'll find someone with time! For now, enjoy your time being alone. Good luck with it!
ReplyDeleteThe right person will come - don't stress about it too much and enjoy the single life! It's when you least expect it that it will happen :)
ReplyDeleteI loved reading this! You will find the right person - and they will be lucky to find you!
ReplyDeleteI am glad to read your blog! Hopefully you will have more experienced blogs like this! Thanks for sharing
ReplyDeleteDon't rush into the relationship thing! Adulthood is weird and there are no timelines to life, if you come to think of it. You can do it!
ReplyDeleteI will be 30 by September and I'm single (not in a relationship) and it doesn't bother me at all. As you said, people have different priorities. And my top priorities right now doesn't include marriage, this doesn't mean I don't plan on getting married, I do but not right now. I don't think you should worry yourself about this things. They always have a way of fixing themselves at the right time. Just focus on creating the live you dream of and in which you both will be happy living in it when you finally meet. Assuming responsibilities at home for our parents and siblings is an entirely different thing from the responsibities and expectations of a relationship and marriage. Consider this period as the free time you have to build on yourself and prepare yourself for the kind of marriage/relationship you want.
ReplyDeleteBy the way, you have a beautiful writing.
Thank you so much this is so inspiring!โค๏ธ I Feel the same way too๐
DeleteAww, hang in there sweetie! I am sorry that your family/culture/those around you are pressuring you to feel bad about the fact that you're single at 24. Trust me, it is better to wait for the RIGHT person, than to marry the WRONG person (as I almost did in my 20s). I only got married at 35, after thinking that I too would never find "Mr. Right," and we now have a beautiful family for which I am grateful every single day. Because it took me so long to find him, I NEVER take him or our family for granted. He was definitely worth the wait, and so many things are just better/easier because we waited this long, figured ourselves out, and had our own lives first. I know you are working hard to help support your parents, but if you can try to focus on being your best YOU and not worrying about what you don't have - that special someone - then (based on my experience and that of many of my friends) that is when you are most likely to meet him. Good luck :)
ReplyDeleteThank you for wonderful commentโค๏ธ I hope I find and meet himโค๏ธ๐ฆ
DeleteLove will come to you when you will stop searching desperately for it. As long as you start feeling happy and in peace with yourself and your life, when you stop searching, it will come to you.
ReplyDeleteIn this day and age, it's ok to not be married at 24. You are still young and have a lot to explore. I know your family is pressuring you, mine is and I am 29, but you found your love. Hopefully, your family will look back one day and see what you are passionate about is your true love.
ReplyDeleteWow, this is beautifully written! I can't wait for next article!
ReplyDeleteNo rush, Amays! This whole thing of relating with somebody is a "trap", if you know what I mean (chuckles)....
ReplyDeleteRight now, your ideal man is in a bad relationship. Take it from me, when you're not ot looking for him, you will find him. Dont let society make you think you need to get married by a certain age. If you do, you will not find happiness. Go with the flow and when it happens...it will be wonderful. -Stacey Felice
DeleteIt is a lot of pressure to have so many financial responsibilities already. THank you for being so open.
ReplyDeleteI know there are a lot of societal pressures to find a man and have him support you but I don't think you need a relationship to live a happy and good life. I hope you find a balance to what you are looking for.
ReplyDeleteYou are still young and free. Take advantage of it to be happy even without that someone. There will be a lot of good things God has planned for you. And that someone could be one of them. Just be patient.
ReplyDeleteThis is inspired writing. I hope you find whatever you are looking for, soon.
ReplyDeleteNot just a stress reliever, also writing really helps us to know more about ourselves. Keep it up, girl!
ReplyDeleteI know this sounds crazy, but for me and a lot of people I know, as soon as I just embraced singleness and stopped caring, I met my hubby. So just enjoy it and the right person will come along.
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday to you! Things happen in life for a reason
ReplyDeleteMy son is 25 and feeling this pressure. I didn't even realize taht wad a thing w/boys but it surely is
ReplyDeleteYou have amazing qualities and will find love when you least expect it.
ReplyDeleteWhen you meet the right person and the time is right, it will all fall into place. Don't rush it!
ReplyDeleteNice post and I really enjoyed reading your story. You don't need to be pressure in having someone in your life you are young and free so enjoy every moment of it. Don't need to look for it you need to pray for it that on the right time the right man will come in your way.
ReplyDeleteSuch a beautifully written post - Loving your blog!
ReplyDeleteDon't be so hard on yourself. You are so young and full of life. Find love in yourself and in everything you do in your everyday life. Once you do that, you will automatically attract your soul mate.
ReplyDeleteThis is so beautiful and honest - you will definitely find the right person for you!
ReplyDeletePressure can be a bad thing. I can relate to this. Happy birthday to you.
ReplyDeleteLove comes when you stop worrying about it and stop looking for it. When the time is right, it will be there.
ReplyDeleteWhen it comes to finding the right one, thereโs really no rush. I had my first boyfriend at 28 and found the right one and got married at 35. My husband is the best so no regret that it took so long for our paths to cross. :)
ReplyDeleteI was once 24 with no love life, I didn't know that there was always a plan. I meet my now husband at 28, married at 29 :)
ReplyDeleteThis is so beautiful and transparaent, I am looking forward to more from you.
ReplyDeleteHuwag mag alala beshy, may darating talaga. Manalig lang. I know it may sound so impossible for your right now but someday you and your special someone will eventually bump into each other. Just keep the faith!
ReplyDeleteYour time will come, and I hope when it does, you'll have a happily ever after. I do believe there is someone for everyone so just stay open to it. I think it's amazing that you help your parents financially.
ReplyDeleteIt will come at the right time. Just pray for it you donโt to hurry ๐
ReplyDeleteWe can empathize with you on so many points !
ReplyDeleteIts not easy for many people to express themselves and share their thoughts as openly as you did! And it requires a lot of courage too! Well done! Music and travel makes us happy too, just like you! We wish you success with everything you do and as they say, everything happens in the right time! Just be at it!
ReplyDeleteRelationships can be so messy sometimes. And they are certainly hard to figure out. I would try not to let the stress of others affect you when it comes to getting into a relationship. Take your time with it and don't rush it.
ReplyDeleteSuch a lovely way you have expressed it in words... I have met my hubby when I was 25 and it was just a blessing ๐๐๐ผ
ReplyDeleteWhat a lovely post. Hope you found the one, and keep him forever.
ReplyDeleteBeautiful. Just wow. SO well written. You left me all speechless.
ReplyDeleteLove always comes when we are least expecting it you are just fabulous do not forget that!
ReplyDeleteKeep on keeping on! Good things come to those who wait ;)
ReplyDeletesociety pressures us to have it all figured out by a certain age but reality is we are all different and have a different journey.
ReplyDeleteFirst, I love people who aren't afraid to put themselves out there. You are beautiful inside and out. Don't let anyone pressure you into getting into a relationship just because of your age. In the U.S. it is getting more and more common for people to establish their careers first and they don't get married until they are in their thirties. When the time is right, your man will come along.
ReplyDeleteWhat an encourage comment from you Thank you Yahh! right man will come along!
DeleteIt took me a lot of failed relationships and many years before I met my husband. There is no set timeline. Take care of yourself first and everything will fall into place.
ReplyDeleteI turn 23 tomorrow and I'm still single! To be honest, I'm not that bothered but I do get lonely. A lot of my friends hate it though.
ReplyDeleteLove is such a fickle thing sometimes. And it doesn't always work out the way that we hope. But I think it's when we fixate on the feeling it makes things hard. When we focus on the person we love it's so much different and better.
ReplyDeleteYou are still young and you have many qualities! The right person will come along eventually!
ReplyDeleteLove this unique reflection! Still single over here and I'm probably past my prime lol! We just have to remember that our time will come eventually and sometimes we find what we're looking for when we least expect it!
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